Blood type and Personality traits

This morning, I’ve just read some interesting articles about Blood type and Personality traits.

Personality Traits By Blood Type

Guest Author – Joy Alari

In the United States, it is normal to match a person’s personality to horoscopes, in Japan its quite another kettle of fish, the Japanese prefer to match personality traits with blood type, this fad started in Japan during the early thirties.

In Japan from the old to young, is aware and knows their blood type, companies in Japan have even being known, to divide their workers by blood type!

The desire to know about blood type, started because of an assertion from the West, which stated that Asians were lower, in the evolutionary chain and that they were more closely related, to animals than other races.

Of cos this ridiculous as well as unscientific theory, was insulting and wasn’t demeaning to the Asian race, even though Modern Science did disprove it, a Japanese scientist called Furukawa Takeji, still took it upon himself to scientifically, disprove this obviously faulted theory, and thus emerged the idea of matching, personality traits to blood type.

Now here are the general theories, of each blood type to personality traits, also remember that the Rh factor, does not play any role to either blood type or personality traits.

Type O
People with the Type O blood group, are said to be creative, confident and quite popular, they enjoy being the center of attention. Type O’s are also outgoing and very social, though mostly initiators, they may never get to finish what they start.

Type A
People with the Type A blood group, are said to be very trustful, honest and conscientious to a fault. Type A’s are also known to be perfectionists, they might seem outwardly calm but tend to have balls of nerves within. Type A are also artistic and are sometimes shy and sensitive too.

Type B
People with Type B blood group, are strong willed, goal oriented, they always finish whatever they start, whether in perfect timing or in excellent fashion. People with Type B blood group, always seem to find their own way in life.

Type AB
Those with a Type AB blood group, are an interesting lot indeed, though they are trustworthy and honest, its being said that they seem to have a split personality! Type AB blood group also like helping people, they are outgoing and confident but they can also be shy too.

Compatibility by Blood Groups
A is said to be most compatible with A and AB

B is said to be most compatible with B and AB

AB is said to be most compatible with AB, B, A and O

O is said to be most compatible with O, and AB

Japanese Blood Types and Personality

Every Japanese celebrity writeup and every anime character description with any claim to authority gives the person’s (or character’s) blood type. Why? Because, thanks to a remarkable bit of Science! by a gentleman named Furukawa Takeji, the Japanese believe that a person’s blood type affects their personality.

Each blood type has a personality profile. These profiles—which I took from a site whose location is long since lost in the mists of time, my apologies—are:

Type A

People with blood type A have a deep-rooted strength that helps them stay calm in a crisis when everyone else is panicking. However, they tend to avoid confrontation, and feel very uncomfortable around people. A types are shy and sometimes withdrawn. They seek harmony and are very polite, but all the same feel that they never really fit in with others. A types are very responsible. If there is a job to be done, they prefer to take care of it themselves. These people crave success and are perfectionists. They are also very creative, and the most artistic of all the blood types, most likely because of their sensitivity.

People with blood type A are also likely to be considered classic “type A’s”: stressed and conscientious. In anime, people like Hotohori are type A’s.

The Third Hokage, Haruno Sakura, Hotohori, Heero Yui, Keiko (Kayko) Yukimura 

Type B

People with blood type B are the most practical of the blood groups. They are specialists in what they do. When they start a project, they spend extra time understanding and trying to follow directions than others might. When they are doing something, all of their attention is focused on it. They tend to stick to a goal and follow it through to the end, even if it seems impossible. They tend to be less than cooperative, as they like to follow their own rules and their own ideas. They are individualists. B type people pay attention to their thoughts a little more than their feelings, and therefore can sometimes seem cold and serious.

People with blood type B are often considered more relaxed, freewheeling, and unconventional than other types, although not necessarily to an unacceptable degree. In anime, the genki, off-the-wall types are type B, along with any kind of well-intended character who’s ruled by their impulses.

Naruto, Duo Maxwell, Miaka, Nuriko, Tasuki, Sagara Sanosuke

Type O

People with blood type O people are outgoing, energetic and social. They are the most flexible of the blood types. They easily start up projects but often have trouble following through because they give up easily. They are flighty and not too dependable. O types always say what’s on their mind. They value the opinion of others and like to be the center of attention. Also, people with O blood are extremely self-confident.

Type O, the most “average” blood type, is considered the best type in Japan.

Quatre, Sailor Moon, Saito Hajime, Kamiya Kaoru, Tamahome

Type AB

People with blood type AB are hard to categorize. They can have characteristics on both ends of the spectrum at the same time. For instance, they are both shy and outgoing. They easily switch from one opposite to another. AB people are trustworthy and responsible, but can’t handle it when too much is asked of them. They don’t mind doing favors or helping out, as long as its on their own conditions. People with this blood type are interested in art and metaphysics.

AB is considered the worst blood type. In predictability-loving Japan, they’re loose cannons. They also like to set their own conditions and reserve the right to drop out when things don’t meet their expectations. They’re known to be sensitive and considerate—at times—but it just isn’t enough to balance out the flaws in this blood type. For a while, some companies tried dividing their employees into work groups based on blood type, and no one wanted to work with the AB group. Anime villains are likely to be type AB.

Uchiha Sasuke, Hongo Yui, Tomo, Trowa Barton, Kenshin

Blood type A

People with blood type A are usually serious, patient, and cool. They are also emphatic, certifiable, and believable although they are stubborn. Before they do something, they usually think first and plan it in detail. Indeed, they like harmony, peace and organization.

They do everything seriously and consistently, and make themselves appropriately. That is why, they will try not to hurt anyone with their words or speak unnecessarily. But, they can stand apart from other people. They also suppressed their feeling, so they look rigid although they still have weaknesses, such as nervous, scary, and many more. They lean to surround themselves with the same characteristic people.

Blood Type B

People with blood type B tend to be curious and interested in everything. They also lean to have many hobbies. If they are interested in something, they will be buoyant, but unfortunately they will be bored fast. However, they can choose the most important thing for them to do.

They lean to want to be number one in anything rather than just to be average people. But, they usually ignore another activity if they have focused on a certain activity. In other words, they cannot do some activities at the same time.

They look cheerful, enthusiastic, and bright. But, they are actually not like their appearances. Indeed, they are antisocial with many people. They are rugged individualists who are straightforward and like to do things their own way. Unluckily, their insistence on being independent can sometimes go too far and become a weakness.

Blood type O

People with blood type O usually have a big role in motivating the passion of their groups and stimulating the harmonious relationship among the group members. They look like people who accept and do something calmly.

They are smart to cover up their feelings, so they look like people who are always cheerful, peaceful, and do not have problem at all. But, if they cannot bear it, they will surely find out a place or someone to talk.

They are kind, often do kindness, and are not reluctant to get out of their money to other people. They are actually stubborn too and have their own opinions about anything in confidence, but they are also flexible and easily accept new things. No wonder that they lean to be influenced easily by other people. Look like people who are temperate and believable, but they also often make big mistakes because of their careless characteristic. However, their characteristics make them lovable.

Blood type AB

People with blood type AB have sensitive and soft feeling. They have profound interests with other people’s feelings and always face other people with care and beware. However, they also tough with themselves and people close to them. Thus, they lean to have two personalities.

They are usually grudge people and think something too deep. Fortunately, they have a lot of friends, but they also need time to be lonely to think their own problems.

So, what’s your blood type? 🙂

I don’t need a lover…

All I need is

…to have someone to think about whenever I feel lonely.

…to have someone in my heart that could hold me from the wild nights out there.

…to have someone to reach for that keep my head from the crazy thoughts.

Could you be that person for me? I don’t really care. ‘Cause I don’t need you by my side, I don’t need you to do anything for me, I don’t even need to meet you. I just need to you stay there in your own life, be the one who I desire, be the one who I choose to give a special place in my heart. I’m never that type of person who need to be taken care of, but who need to have someone to look after. I’m strong. I sure can stand on my own feet.

If you think I’m the one who live for love, you don’t understand me at all. Everybody need to have a love of life. But my love is definitely not my lust. Not ever. 🙂 If you think I’m the one who get crazy for love, you don’t know me at all. I’m just going crazy when my life has no point. I’m just going crazy when I can’t figure out the plan of my life clearly.

And when I made a plan – I chose a path – I got a goal, I would go for it with a peaceful smile. And, this is Now!

Everything is back to its orbit again. My life is back to what it was. No more uncertain. No more Viv or stranger. No more love or lust. I’m me again. A Loner in soul, not so happy but yet not so sad. Just enough to carry on with this life. Just enough! I’m home with my life, working hard, loving my big family, learning new things.

I’m the one who always be there to save myself in the end, as always! Always. 🙂

I’m my own hero. Yeah We all need to be our own hero.

Be happy me. 🙂



Betraying ex-love

Dear blog,

Today is such an another boring day. Yes it’s Monday. Working hard all day long, trying to do what a normal grown-up does, and trying to act like my life is full of love…make me feel so lost now – when the lights go down – when I’m alone in my bed, thinking about my day. What do I really want? What do I really desire?

Too bad!

I remember when I was a kid, I always tried to do things which make my life more interesting by so many crazy ways such as: chaging the names of everything (in hope of changing the whole world), trying to find the treasure in my backyard, trying to create my own language, breaking every rules….

When I was a kid, I wasn’t afraid to be different!

But look at me now, when I’m not a kid anymore…

When I’m a so called grown-up, I have to teach kids the actual names of things, have to have a job to earn money (finding treasure is now becoming a job too), have to the rules/law. It seems like what a grown-up really afraid of is being different!

Anyways, being an adult has its own good in many different fields. But now I’m not in the mood to talk about them. 😦 Now, I just wish I could be a kid again. lol Everybody wish for that! 😀

Hmmm, let me talk about the title of this entry. “Betraying ex-love”. Yeah, that’s exactly what I can feel now about love subject.

My ex-love has a lovely name – Vivian. After 5 years of love, we’d came to the break-up of this relationship. It’s been more than 2 years since the break-up. I’ve never stop thinking about her, and I’ve never thought I could move on with anyone else, never thought I could wish anyone else to stay in my life. I’ve thought I would wait to meet her again someday when we get older, and then I would tell her that I’m still waiting for her to come back home. Yeah I’ve thought so! And I’m doing this every single day of my life, since she’s been gone. But, I’m becoming a betrayer to my own thought!

There’s an stranger come in my life, who makes my “every single day” changes! I’m not sure If I’m having a crush on her, but I miss her, feel like kissing her, hugging her, making out with her, doing anything a lover could do with her. Yes, I still want all of these right now.


So, I’m not a faithful person like I’ve thought?! So, I’m not going to love one and only Vivian for the rest of my life?! So, I’m falling in love again?!

No, I’m not sure. Is this love/ having crush, or just lust?! I don’t know!

I can’t say it love ’cause I’ve just known this special stranger for about 2 months. This breaks my own rule. Am I falling for a person who I’ve just met that fast? I can’t accept this! I hate this feeling.

Lonely and anxious.

What I can do now is to wait! Wait for…what will be will be!

But I have to say that I’m a betrayer who betray my own thought, betray my own choice, betray ex-love. I hate the change, but I’m feel myself changing now.

I’m afraid to fall in love again, and if so, it will be very different this time. ‘Cause I know this stranger won’t love me back! I’ve never having crush on someone and yet don’t even like this type of love. So hope time will brings the peace back to my soul, then I will continue to walk through the hard road of life within only one big love – Vivian as I ever planned before.

It’s 1:21 AM now. Too sleepy to think or write anything more. I need to love my body, let it rest for being woken up at 5 AM. It’ll be a new day, new hope waiting for me. Hope so.

Tuesday, November 29, 2011





Winter was worse than usual that year
The city was cloaked in dampness.
The sun lay hidden behind heavy gray skies.
Everyone was depressed and,
Occasionally, even tearful.

October 6: Partly Sunny
She, a writer, lived at ..19 in an old apartment block in the center city. It was her custom to turn left when she left the house, no matter where she was needed.

He a musician, lived at ..17 in an old apartment block in the center city. It was his custom to turn right when he left the house, no matter where he was needed.
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October 15: Cloudy with sunny intervals
He never runs into her.

October 28: Temperature dropping tonight
Things haven’t been good for him lately,
But sometimes he makes a little extra
Money playing in upscale restaurants

November 7: Overcast. Winter is coming and dampening spirit
When he’s not practicing the violin, he goes to the park, where he whiles away the afternoon feeding pigeons.

November 11: A cold afternoon wind
At times he feels life is empty.

November 19: The winter sun draws long shadows on the ground.
She’s in the habit of turning left.
He’s in the habit of turning right.
Will they ever meet?

November 23: The days are getting shorter. Mostly cloudy tonight.
She’s translating a tragic novel.
It makes her feel the world’s a very sad place.

December 2: A thick bank of clouds moves slowly overhead.
When she’s not working, she likes to go downtown for coffee.
She strolls along the streets, watching the people talking to the cats.

December 10: The sun comes out, but inside it feels damper than ever.
At times she feels life is colorless.

December 17: Fair
She’s in the habit of turning left.
He’s in the habit of turning right.
The two have never met.

December 20: The rain is on its way back
Like most people who live in cities, they don’t know each other, even though they live side-by-side.

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Outside of time.
Life sometimes favors us with inexperienced coincidences;
Even parallel lines cross sometimes.

December 22: Weak sunshine. Dense black clouds pile up over the hills.
And so it happened that one
Day they met in the park
Beside the fountain.

Same day.
It was like meeting a long-lost friend.
Winter lost its bleakness.
They passed a glorious afternoon together.
Toward the dusk the skies suddenly opened.
Hurriedly they exchanged phone numbers and parted.

That evening: Rainy.
As usual, he ran to the right.
As usual, she ran to the left.
They were soaked to the skin, but happy at heart.
That night, they were both too excited to sleep.
They lay listening to the rain falling.
She in ..19; he in ..17.

Outside of time.
Life mixes in many mischances, too.
One minute you have hold of the kite;
The next, the string is broken.

December 23: A cold front sends temperatures plummeting.
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December 24: It rains all Christmas eve.
She’s afraid to go out in case she misses his call.
He tried to decipher the blurred paper, but every combination he tries is wrong.

December 31: Freezing temperatures. The cold front lingers. The rain continues to fall.
The radio broadcasts the New Year countdown. The end of another year.
Sad and disappointed, they pass a sleepless night.

January 5: Cold gusty winds.

January 12: The weather finally clears. The sun appears briefly but the air remains cold.
The changes in the city are startling.
The fountain where they met is going, to make way for an overpass.

February 2: Temperatures are warmer, but it still feels cold.
He tells himself optimistically that, like in the movies, he’ll meet her around the next corner or in one of the cafes along the park.

February 14: Valentines Day. A few lonely stars twinkle in the evening sky.
She walks up and down the cold streets.
Suddenly a bare tree lights up with a million colored fairy lights, and,
Unexpectedly, she bursts into tears.

February 25: The sky is veiled in thin gray clouds.
She goes up.
He goes down.

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February 28: The azaleas are about to bloom, and in the mountains the wild cherry blossoms are out.
The days pass slowly. Neither catches sight of each other.

March 9: The air is full of the fresh new smells, spring has finally come.
The crowded street brings back memories of their short but happy afternoon.

March 23: The days are gradually warming up. The night skies are clear and starry.
In the familiar, and yet unknown city
They search for an unknown, yet familiar, figure.

March: 30: The rainy season arrives.
On rainy days she thinks of him more than ever.
He wonders how she could have disappeared without a trace?

April 13: The rainy season ends. Pigeons take to the skies.
He dreams of flying over the city, searching for her.

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May 9: The sunset turns rosy pink, then deepens into sapphire.
She sits in the lonely corners of the city, remembering.

May 18: Toward the evening a slight southerly breeze ruffles the air. The glowing red sun slowly sets. Another spring day is over.
The dazzling night-lights increase his feelings of emptiness and loneliness.

June 9: Large clouds hang stationary in the sky.
For some reason, she is low in spirits.
Thinking of how alone she is makes her sadder still.

July 20: After today’s thunderstorm, the moon looks exceptionally bright.
In the maze of the city, they can’t hear each other calling,
And they don’t know where to look.

August 19: Clouds, chased by the winds and rain, race across the sky.
Complaints about gloomy weather, pot-holed pavement, traffic lights and unreliable buses.

August 31: At midday, a bee flew into the room and buzzed against the windowpane.
She wonders, is he still here in the city, or has he moved away?

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September 5: The weather is hot and airless. Listlessness pervades.
Playing with the same yellow tabby.
Feeding the same stray dog.
Listening to the same crow sing its dawn melody.

September 24: A fine morning mist. The leaves are turning red.
Looking out the window at the same view.
Smelling the same scented air.
Hearing the same tunes coming from next door.

October 5: Cool. The leaves are turning yellow.
Walking through the same fallen leaves.
Sitting beside the same tree-lined path.

October 15: The last warm days of fall are here.
Playing with the same old lady’s baby.
Noticing the same green hat with long, floppy ears.
Both at different times.

October 26: The wind begins blowing from the north.
Their only memento: a rain-blurred phone number.

November 8: Clear and brisk. Inside, darkness spreads gradually.
In her room,
The sound of someone playing the violin floats in from next door.
It’s a melancholy tune.
Is his room,
Isn’t it her birthday today?
I wonder where she is now?

November 19: Winter is in the air.
The memories are fading.
He begins to doubt whether that afternoon ever happened.
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November 30: The midnight moon, shines coldly in the window.
The same postman delivers them both letters from far-away friends.

December 6 amp and Cold.
They live so close……….and yet so far.

December 17: Another sunless day. No stars. No moon.
The city feels like a prison without walls…confining, suffocating.

December 22: Continuous drizzle
She’s determined to leave this depressing city.
He thinks it’s time to take a trip to the bright sunshine.

December 23: It starts to snow. It hasn’t snowed in years.
As usual, he turns right.
As usual, she turns left.

Same day
The snow falls gently.
They meet at the bus stop.

December 24: Snowing heavily
Someone is singing “Silent Night”

December 31: The snow stops, and the temperature rises.
A happy crowd in the city square awaits the New Year countdown.
At exactly midnight they hug and kiss each other.

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March 6: A bright sunny day. Fluffy white clouds float overhead.

Spring has finally come.


*Turn Left, Turn Right (Chinese: 向左走·向右走; pinyin: Xiàng zuǒ zǒu, xiàng yòu zǒu; Cantonese Yale: Heung joh chow, heung yau chow) is a 2003 jointHong Kong-Singaporean romance film, filmed in Taipei. Produced and directed by Johnnie To and Wai Ka-Fai, the film stars Takeshi Kaneshiro and Gigi Leung. The story is based on the book A Chance of Sunshine by Jimmy Liao, who makes a cameo appearance in the film. It is also the first Chinese-language Asian film ever from Warner Bros.

“When all the wild Summer was in her gaze”

ONE that is ever kind said yesterday:
“Your well-beloved’s hair has threads of grey,
And little shadows come about her eyes;
Time can but make it easier to be wise
Though now it seems impossible, and so
All that you need is patience.”

Heart cries, “No,

I have not a crumb of comfort, not a grain.
Time can but make her beauty over again:
Because of that great nobleness of hers
The fire that stirs about her, when she stirs,
Burns but more clearly. O she had not these ways
When all the wild Summer was in her gaze.”

O heart! O heart! if she’d but turn her head,
You’d know the folly of being comforted.

–William Butler Yeats

I love this poem and yet this movie – “The world unseen”. I found this poem in the movie. 🙂 Yes! “When all the wild summer was in her gaze”, just favorite!

Today is Sunday, which means no work and spend all the free time for my family and me. 🙂 I have a good plan for today: bookstore, shopping, cooking for my family. :X I plan to buy beautiful handbook. lol. I don’t know what I’m going to write down in it but I suddenly crave for handwriting. It’s been such a long long time I don’t probably write something on paper with my fountain-pen. Hmm, I love fountain-pen, paper, handbook…and all the stuff like that. 🙂 Working with computer and typing everything is what people do nowadays. I miss the time when I was a kid, writing diary everynight onto my purple handbook with my favorite fountain-pen. I’ve always chosen the black ink. 😛 And then for so many reasons we all have to grow up. We learn to hide everything inside, hide our own diary even from your family, hide your thoughts from people and fake a smile. We yet learn to come over all the pain and shock without any sounds or any words. I’ve kept silence for such a long time so that I have to learn again the way we used to express the simplest emotions/feelings of truth ; learn open up in the true way. 🙂 Life is a silly joke in which children wish for growing up while the grown-up wish they didn’t; in which all people – children and their parents who used to be children – are living in the same planet but having 2 different worlds. World – in a child’s eyes – is the definition of “magical”. World – in an adult’s eyes – is the definition of “functional”. Everything in an adult’s world has their own function : A shirt is used to wear, chair is used to sit on, etc…. But when you’re a child, you don’t care about the uses at all, ’cause a child has its own priceless treasure: Imagination.

[testing my pen. lol]

Hmm, I’m writing long and rambling again. Always. 😛

Now I need start my plan for Sunday.
Have a nice day!


Back to me…

Dear blog,

I want to cry out loud now. But it appears I can’t find my tears nowhere. Is is okay for a person to not cry for a whole year and more?

I put a bell outside my soul’s windows, and wait – waiting for something or someone to come ringing my bell, walking through my door and staying. But, people come and go, as it’s said. They came, rang my bell, then, some tried to walk inside, some ran away when the door just half-opened ; some tried to stay, some never meant to try. Yep, there was 2 people in this life who found my bell and rang it to tears. 2 people, and now her – the stranger! Is she counted to be the 3rd? She, once again, made me feel something special… made me start to speak my real words, but just for the very short while, and then everything had suddenly changed. And I’ve just kept asking “What us?”. I’ve been feeling fool and anxious. But what should we put on table? what should I ask you to explain? what should I make clear? Who are we? What is the name of the equivocation we ever had? What is it? I don’t know. All I can do is to keep my silence again!

I miss you holding my hand.

I miss you holding me inside your warm arms.

I miss us almost having a real kiss but just couldn’t stop thinking.

Yep, we never stop thinking. And thinking too much makes us go from stranger to stranger again.

I hate you!

Did I make it that easy to walk right in and out of my life?

Now I’m back to me.

Me alone in my room when the night falls.
Me alone with my laptop putting the status “T.G.I.F.”

Maybe, I’m the type of person who should be alone for the better thing ever happen. Type of person who should stay away from her own happiness to keep it safe. Type of person who can’t hold anything within her small hands and her wild/crazy mind.

Hmm, I should stop talking about crush/love or whatever now. About my state of health, I’ve not felt fine yet. Still a little tired from having high fever yesterday. My feet are hurt so bad from wearing high heel working all day long. My knee is in pain from the chaging of weather (rheumastism). In brief, I’m not in good mood now. Exhausted!

I wish my job was being a mermaid. I love swimming and nature. So it could be so wonderful for me to have a chance swimming with all the beautiful creatures such as whales, seals, turtles, dolphins, fish, etc…

Water has ability to help me feel relax in many ways.

Hmm, I don’t know what to write more. My brain is mess again. lol. Maybe It’s time to go to bed, trying to sleep ’cause I have to wake up at 5 AM in the morning and it’s 1:43 Am now.

See you tomorrow bloggie. Hope you can teach me how to express my words, how to write down my diary, how to open my mind and heart as well.

Sunday, November 27, 2011
Back to me